29: On Your Potential Legacy

Mindset and Midlife
Written By Meghan Krause

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Take a moment to fast forward to just beyond the end of your life.

Even though you’ve passed away, let’s imagine you get to witness a very special happening: your own memorial service. But this service is different in a couple of ways (aside from the most obvious – that you’re able to witness it):

  1. First: all of your loved ones and meaningful connections are there, even those who went before you – family members including parents and grandparents; friends from childhood through now; co­workers and those above and below you from all your professional endeavors; mentors and mentees; classmates, neighbors, teammates, military brothers and sisters, fellow congregants, local merchants – in short, anyone whose life was touched by yours.

  2. Second: Everyone there has been summoned to tell their absolute truth about you. That’s not to say that people at non-imaginary funerals don’t tell the truth...but let’s face it: there are a LOT of rose-colored glasses on such occasions. They tend to gloss over the questionable stuff, like that time you ganged up with others to mercilessly tease Annie, your 3rd-grade classmate. Plus, it’s not like your haters are going to attend your funeral.

In the case of this special service that you get to witness, even those who weren’t your biggest fan will be there and--gulp!--be invited to speak. Everyone is gathered to express, with a New Yorker-level of frankness, what impact your life had on theirs; what happened to them because of the legacy. of. you.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE

  • What legacy is and why it matters. 

  • What character is and how you can strengthen it. 

  • What to expect in The Career to Calling Accelerator.

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